LEARN YOUR YES AND NO’S
I smell chips - Seaford beach, Melbourne.
Last year (2019) was a test for many in regards to knowing or understanding the difference between a yes and no.
I’m not talking about if you should take a holiday instead of paying down your debt first. I’m asking you to learn your yes and no’s.
Why?
Actually tuning into the body and knowing what your body does when it’s a yes or a no could save you a lot of heart aches, money, pitfalls and many other life choices.
Here is why.
Often some of us friendly people get taken for a ride for our kindness and it helps to set boundaries and know what to do when something seems off or wrong.
Let’s say you ask me over for a hot drink and my eyes expand, my heart leaps and visions start flooding my mind of what to wear or how to get there are all signs that it’s a yes! Along with my biggest yes are the goose bumps or tingling. (See my post on Goosebumps verses Tingling here)
Then you ask me the same thing two weeks later and my body goes calm and almost dead stiff as you were about to view my body in a funeral parlour instead is a strong no! My no’s is a silent reaction similar to that space in between during meditation.
But that doesn’t mean its not happening for you. It’s about learning what your body does when somebody asks you.
I find it fascinating to hear of how other people’s bodies react as some are more visual or clairaudient as they hear a noise like a buzzer from a game show as one of my friends has. There is no right or wrong answer, its just how your spirit guides communicate with you.
Back in late 2016 I was sitting in the couch in Sydney with a small group of women in a workshop and my shamanic teacher said something ….. and I screamed a ‘NO’ at the top of my voice and dug my heels deeply into the carpet as though I was throwing a tantrum….oops I forgot where I was for a moment, but I knew that was a very strong no for me to not do that. And I stuck with my guidance and so glad I did as I would have been in further trouble if I didn’t.
Hence the reason to understand the difference as the more in tune you get, you are able to know that situation is going to go ahead. Just like the fitness classes I was attending at the time of writing when you have the cash in your purse ready to go for several days….now that’s a YES.
It’s time to trust it.
2019 now was the year to listen.
To how your body reacts.
That will be life gift that will carry you for the rest of your time on Earth.
Post written Circa 16th July, 2019, 24th January 2020
